Expendable…

E-X-P-E-N-D-A-B-L-E… Think about this word for a second…

Ok what have you thought about? Expendable…a word a boss uses when firing you…extra dough left over when making a pie…something that you no longer need..something…not a person a something…right?

When you think of expendable you think that you getting rid of something…an object.

Well, when someone tells you that your friendship or you yourself as a friend is expendable it hits ya pretty hard.

At least you could tell the person face to face or over the phone or via e-mail….right? So then why do people prefer to ignore you for three months, not speak a word to you, and then when you demand a reason or an answer they say, “its simple…you were expendable…,” why?
That person would have understood if you talked to them about it three months ago I guarantee it.
So if there is anyone out there thinking they need to do the same thing….lighten your load of friends…tell them, talk to them, e-mail them do anything you to let them know. What ever you do, do not, I repeat, do not let them know three months later.

~ by beckyjay on September 12, 2007.